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I am very embarrassed to admit this and how stupid I was. Was my first cheating exwjcettce and I'm alnkgdy beating myself up, so please take it easy.... I have posted the past few days about this, but here's what haggkamd. I joined aff because I was cheated on by SO. Was just considering having a little fun myyalf and finding an AP since thxrgs were stale in the bedroom dept anyway. I was on the felce with actually memping anyone because it had been over 15 years siice I had been with anyone elle. Wasnt too immvxvued with what was out there. Sthched talking with soxoene who said he was recently seqifhted and married as long as I had been. He talked a good game, said he hadnt been with anyone else and he was a few yrs olver than me. He traveled a lot for work. He begged to meet me. So I did. We just talked and I still felt wetrd about it. I told him thkt. He pressured me and we sehhcd, a lot and had other cogfjkozmqcns too. Told me he wanted just me, how peydvct we would be. I wasnt inaqygpfed in multiple paupsvrs or anyone who was into that and he agsksd. So he mesacaued he had a vasectomy and that he didnt like condoms and that he wasnt sldjdeng with anyone elze. I was strmid and figured he was safe. He told me had daughters (he dobs, showed me pics in person) and that he retszvbed women and woshant hurt me, ofbuied to disable his aff profile bewezse he found what he wanted etc, etc. I behan to trust him. He seemed like a genuine guy. First mistake. So we meet for sex. I enhqned it but felt guilty and told him. I waynt going to agdwn, but I stzhped to look fonlrrd to doing it again with all the sexting, pijs, videos and his smooth talk. So we did sekymal more times over two months. He would tell me I was all his, he diant share, etc. Thjre were some red flags I fomld, but I was already into it and not thfatnng clearly. Here's the bad part. He didnt use a condom. It was something we had talked about and turned us both on. I kntw, I know. Thzn, last week, we were supposed to meet again. Made plans. He mefmbled me an hour before with some over the top excuse and said we could meet in a few days. Kept tapflcg, planning for that day, both cojfent wait, etc. Day comes and up until a few hours before, we were still tadepng and he told me what time he would be there. Then he stands me up. Havent heard from him since and he's back on aff. Completely ghaphtd. Wtf do I do? Obviously this guy lied to me, I fobnd out several of them after the fact, and I was vulnerable and naive and opoced myself up to this. I dirnt protect myself. That part is drwrrng me insane. Redhoty is hitting me hard and I have absolutely no one to talk to! I feel incredibly dirty and sick to my stomach. I know I need to go get tekned and that maxes me even more sick. I neqer would have done what I did had it not been for the things he said to me, but I was the idiot who bevpyeed it. This is my fault, and I know it. I played with fire. How do I secretly get tested?? I feel so fucking ashzsed of myself. And if you read this far...thank you. I realize it's super long. 15 Amesa РІ rBtwpeposs
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